So, you have been dating a Scorpio man for some time now.
After months and years of togetherness, unfortunately, the relationship has reached its end.
And here you are, wanting to move on, telling yourself you have to! What to do next?
It’s more than tempting to text him or call him to ask for closure, but you know it would only lead to more drama.
This is where you must make a decision.
No. Contact. Rule.
Here are 15 tips on how to make the no contact rule work with a Scorpio man and ensure you get the closure you desperately want.
1) Stay busy
One of the consequences of a breakup with a Scorpio man is the emptiness you feel when your ex is no longer in your life.
It is essential that you don’t allow yourself to be idle.
So what can you do to stay busy?
Try to fill up the empty space with stuff you like to do.
Find new hobbies, look for work that needs to be done, meetings, and even social events with your friends and family.
You may also sign up for different classes, do some activity you are passionate about, or find a part-time job.
All this will help you keep your mind off him and allow you to create a new life without him in it.
Before you know it, the pain will have gone away.
You can then start anew.
2) Concentrate on your goals and priorities
At the end of the day, you don’t want to spend all your time thinking about what could have been.
This will only make things worse for you.
So to avoid that, make sure you focus on what is really important to your life.
Start making big plans and think about your priorities.
Begin with the first step and everything else will follow.
Thinking about long-term goals and dreams will help you forget him and free up space in your mind where he used to dwell.
You can also use your time to make a list of all the things you want out of life.
Organize it and then start working towards them one by one.
You owe it to yourself.
3) Keep yourself busy with friends and family
Part of being busy with other things is to be around family and friends as much as possible so that you do not get a chance to go off deep in your thoughts.
After all, it’s best to keep your mind distracted from the point when you first met him and the journey of your relationship.
You can do so by spending time with close friends and family instead of focusing on the break-up.
You can also do fun things with your family.
Go to a movie and share a good conversation afterward.
Plan an outdoor activity for family and friends and make it an event that you will all remember together forever.
There are many possibilities.
You just have to take the initiative and make your familial and platonic relationships matter to you again by focusing on your goals and priorities rather than on your ex Scorpio man.
4) Learn from the experience of others (No contact rule for Scorpios)
You can also use your time to learn from the experiences of other people who have been in a similar situation.
For example, try reading articles like this one and find advice on what other people have done to get over a relationship with a Scorpio man.
This way, you will avoid making the same mistakes they did and get closure faster.
When you go through their stories, look for themes that may repeat themselves again and again.
You may also take note of the things that worked for them and apply them to your situation to avoid making the same mistakes again.
By doing this, you will get closure much faster than if you try to make your way.
Also, bear in mind that situations are different for everyone and that what works for one person may not work for another.
Your life is unique, so never be afraid to think outside the box when it comes to advise on how to get over a break-up with a Scorpio man.
You can do it, girl!
5) Get clarity by speaking to a gifted advisor
The points in this article will give you a good idea on how to make the no contact rule work with your Scorpio ex-lover.
But what if you’d like advice tailored to your unique situation?
A gifted advisor can answer all sorts of questions and give you the guidance you’re searching for.
Like, are they really your soulmate? Are you meant to be with them? If not, how can you implement and follow the no contact rule with your Scorpio ex?.
When I spoke to someone from Psychic Source after going through a rough patch in my relationship, they really helped me out.
After months of not feeling like myself, I was finally able to see my situation with better clarity and direction.
Not to mention, I was extremely impressed by how kind, empathetic, and understanding of my unique situation they were.
In reading, a gifted advisor can tell you whether you can make the no contact rule work for you, and most importantly, empower you to make the right decisions when it comes to your life.
6) Try to stay calm and happy
Listen to me.
Learning how to make the “no contact rule” work with a Scorpio man is not a scenario you want to get into.
However, this doesn’t mean that you have to be sad or down all the time.
You can try being happy and upbeat whenever possible because this will help distract you from your grief and depression over the break-up.
Scorpio men hate to see you miserable. It makes them feel guilty and responsible for your pain, whether they caused it or not.
To maintain the no contact rule, you must try to stay calm and happy.
If you don’t, he might just break it by reaching out to you.
And you can never, EVER go back from the place where he breaks your heart.
So, try to stay happy and fun.
Stay upbeat because that is what will make him feel at ease and will keep him from staying in touch with you again.
7) Look into self-help books and other resources
When you look into a relationship with a Scorpio man, you will find that it can be tricky to master.
Especially when the no contact rule is involved, which brings up a lot of value judgments that may make your mind crazy about him wondering if you made the right decision or not.
You may also find yourself questioning everything you once believed about your life and relationship.
So to avoid this, you should use the time to help yourself.
The great thing about reading is that it can be done almost anywhere, all the time, and will never tire out or leave you for someone else.
What’s more is that with books, you don’t have to take them from anyone else.
Your library is your treasure trove of knowledge, and it’s up to you what you want to read.
So, look into self-help books and other resources that will help you cope and heal from the situation.
8) Listen to calming music when you’re sad or depressed
Music is a great tool to use when you’re sad or feeling down, and it can serve as a great distraction when you’re trying to avoid the Scorpio man in your life.
You can get a high-quality mix of music for your car which will make you feel better when you drive.
And since being in the car is a common place where shy people like to hide from their problems, having some nice music to listen to will be more like a blessing for your soul.
The other benefit of having music on when you’re sad or depressed is that it can help you cope with your emotions, which will make it easier to get through the “no contact rule”.
If you don’t have any music on, then sometimes, playing your favorite song is all that you need to remind yourself that everything will be okay.
You might as well have yourself learn to play musical instruments.
It may even help you let go of negative thoughts so you can focus on something good.
Feel free to play anything that will make you feel better.
9) Don’t read his social media posts and news
Well, this one is a bit hard.
In this age of technology, it takes a whole lot of discipline not to pass by your ex’s social media posts.
Limit yourself from social networking websites like Facebook and Twitter.
You should try to avoid using these sites at least until you have fully healed from the breakup.
This is because it may be harder on you when you use these sites in your healing process due to the nature of their interactions.
However, it is probably better to avoid the Scorpio man if you feel like he’s already distracted enough by your break-up.
If he starts to contact you again, be sure to block him on social media or request that he stops contacting you altogether.
This also allows you to keep your distance and avoid any awkward situations that may happen during “the chat”.
If you’re not sure if he’s going to contact you again, I suggest that you do this for added safety.
And just in case he does contact you, you can always unblock him at a later date if he is sincere about the reconciliation again.
Whatever happens, do NOT go back on social media and look at his posts or news.
Read your favorite books instead. It could be a nice distraction.
10) Get a good, healthy sleep schedule
It is proven that sleep has a positive effect on mental health.
The less sleep you get, the worse your mood may be.
But getting enough sleep every day will boost your spiritual and physical health, and it will also help you make better decisions while dealing with the break-up.
And by making better decisions, you’ll be able to cope more easily with what happens in life so that you can enjoy more of it.
The last thing you want to happen when you are trying to “make the no contact rule work” with a Scorpio man is for you to look tired and sick all the time.
You should get a regular sleep schedule, and avoid spending too much time awake at night or too little during the day.
The amount of sleep you get has a direct effect on your stress and health, as well as the actions you take in life.
This will help ensure that you are feeling good and healthy.
11) Limit yourself from talking about him
This is very important in keeping your “no contact rule” intact.
Do not keep mentioning him in casual conversations with your friends and family.
Instead, stick to serious topics like sports, politics, and business.
Sometimes, you should avoid talking to anyone about him when you’re going through a break-up.
It is better off this way since keeping him at bay will help you heal faster.
My suggestion is that you would only have a nice chat with your family and close friends who will not be able to relate to you at all if they don’t know anything about the breakup.
What I usually do is say, “I’m fine. I’m just busy with my job.”
However, this is not always the case.
There may be moments when you want someone to talk about the break-up with.
I mentioned earlier how speaking to a gifted advisor can reveal the truth about the “no contact rule”.
Rather than just analyzing the signs in the hopes of getting answers, a gifted advisor can give you real clarity on your situation.
And the best part of speaking to the folks at Psychic Source?
Not only can they give you guidance on the “no contact rule”, but they can empower you to make the right decisions when it comes to your love life.
12) Don’t go to functions that he is a part of
This will help you avoid contact with him as much as possible and keep you from getting hurt more from the break-up.
Give this a thought.
You may be surprised when you look back on your relationship and realize that he has a lot of friends and family members who hang out together quite often.
And if you go to one of these functions, then some of them might notice that you and him are no longer together.
It will be hard to explain this to them with the “no contact rule” in place.
So, I’d say keep yourself away from any of these functions, more so if you know that there are people there who are close to him.
And if you happen to run into him at a function, then he’ll probably be more than willing to chat with you since he’ll think that you are there for business or pleasure only.
This will only make matters worse for you.
13) Plan a trip or a short retreat
If you feel like you’re emotionally hurting more than ever before because of the breakup, then it is time for you to do something about it.
To help ease the pain, maybe you should try a vacation somewhere else for a few days or longer.
I find that taking a trip or going on a short retreat helps me feel better when I am feeling down.
And when I come back from such trips, I usually find it easier to open up to my close friends and family about the things that are holding me back from moving on.
To tell you the truth, I use this break-up process as a chance to get out of a bad place in my life.
A break-up is a time when we can rediscover ourselves, and a vacation is a great way to do this.
Taking a trip will also help you keep in mind that there is more to life than just your relationship.
You need to spend time finding out what “life after love” looks like.
14) Improve your self-esteem and confidence
One thing that I noticed during the no contact rule with my ex is that as long as I felt good about myself, I seemed to be able to keep him at bay.
Perhaps this is because I was more confident in myself and didn’t feel so needy of his attention.
It could also be because I felt like my life was moving forward, so he didn’t have anything to hold over me.
Different people may have different theories about why this happened to me, but one thing is for sure: whenever you feel good about yourself, it will make it easier to implement the no contact rule.
Don’t ignore this.
Do something good for yourself.
Take up a class that will help you develop your communication skills, such as public speaking.
Or you can take a class that involves creative writing or art so that you’ll feel like yourself again.
You can also look into getting a pet, which has been proven to lower stress and depression.
Feel free to look into what will make you feel better about yourself and your life.
And last way, but certainly not the least,
15) Get rid of things that will remind you of your ex
Don’t just throw out all of the things that remind you of him.
Try to set the record straight by letting him know the reason why you’re doing this so that he may understand what has happened.
That way, he would know better than to try to come after you again and further complicate your healing process.
Some of these things include:
Tattoos, T-shirts, Photos, Old love letters, Old souvenirs, and anything else that might remind you of him.
If he’s really getting under your skin, then it is time to keep you busy so that you won’t be so painfully aware of him.
That may mean that you have to cancel all of the things on your calendar and cut out all of the extra-curricular activities that don’t interest you anymore.
Focus on the things that make you happy, exciting, or fulfilled.
It is important to focus on the positive things in your life if you want to be happy again after a breakup.
You can start by writing down 3 things that you’re grateful for.
Who knows, you might find yourself feeling happier after. Also, remember that your emotions are yours and only yours.
So, when you feel sad or depressed for some reason, do something about it by allowing yourself to have some fun and do what makes you happy again.
At the end of the day, your happiness depends on you.
And that is all.
We have listed several ways to keep you from contacting your Scorpio ex-boyfriend.
With all these, always remember that having a positive mindset is important in making sure that your emotional health will remain intact during the “no contact rule”.
You should know that there is life after love and that it’s possible for you to have an awesome time with yourself and do things for yourself.
Even if you didn’t believe this before, understand that you are worth much more than what your Scorpio ex has given to you over the years of your relationship.
And before ending, let me reiterate a very important detail.
I mentioned Psychic Source earlier. They’ve consistently helped me in the past when I’ve felt stuck in a rut.
That’s why I always recommend them to anyone facing issues with keeping the “no contact rule”. Their advisors can help you get to the root of your problems and guide you in making empowered decisions about your future.
When I got recently signed up for a love reading, I was blown away by how kind and genuinely helpful they were.
Can a gifted advisor help you too?
If you want specific advice on your situation, it can be very helpful to speak to someone with special intuition.
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